The Final Diagnosis!

I'm not Jinxing myself, i'm not. 

This is it. They have figured me out. 

I HAVE BEEN VINDICATED!!

Give me some Diamox and slap EA on my forehead 'cus this girls got Episodic Ataxia! Aren't those just lovely words?

After 9 years of my body getting more and more ridiculous the most amazing Nero Ophthalmologist has figured me out with help from my favorite Nero Geneticist. 2 powerful and amazingly brilliant women who put the men in their field to shame. Girl power!

Now what is it?

Episodic Attaxia is " is a group of related conditions that affect the nervous system and cause problems with movement. People with episodic ataxia have recurrent episodes of poor coordination and balance (ataxia). During these episodes, many people also experience dizziness (vertigo), nausea and vomiting, migraine headaches, blurred or double vision, slurred speech, and ringing in the ears (tinnitus). Seizures, muscle weakness, and paralysis affecting one side of the body (hemiplegia) may also occur during attacks. Additionally, some affected individuals have a muscle abnormality called myokymia during or between episodes. This abnormality can cause muscle cramping, stiffness, and continuous, fine muscle twitching that appears as rippling under the skin."

(you should see that muscle rippling it's AWESoMe!! so awesome it is almost worth the horrible pain it causes.)

They have been thinking this could be it for awhile but they had to take me off my beloved Baclofen to check if I still had a nystagmus and to see which symptoms came back.

I cried in her office I was so excited to tell her the changes i've seen, good and bad. And i'm so thankful for the hope i've been given because she was a doctor willing to listen and who refused to give up on me! The next step would be to get tested to see exactly which form of EA I have, (there are seven types) but I've decided against it. There are many reasons, one being cost, the other, is it won't change anything; but the reason why I decided not to get tested is because there's the good kind, and the not so good kind. I don't want to know my expiration date or learn that it will get worse. 

So i'm going to live my life day by day and strive to improve my quality of life with each breath I take. I'm at peace, and I'm happy and that's all that matters.

I was told it was in my head, that it wasn't real that it  wasn't as bad as I was claiming, that I wanted attention. There were days I felt alone, scared, terrified that the only way out was to end it all, but I knew. I had patience. And the pain is now managed and at a minimal because I didn't give up. Every time I wanted to I thought of my niece, of my brother and sister, of my cousins who are more like sisters, of my parents, of the education I have left. DON't GIVE UP!

And when you think you can't do it anymore just give it all over to your creator, your higher power, your peace-giver. 

This day forward I am going to refuse to let it beat me. Because I am a fierce powerful woman, who was given this oppertunity to prove that even when my own nervous system attacks me I push back and pull through. 

whatever your trials whatever your struggles you are stronger then you know. Go out there today, dominate, and kick some ass!

For more info (especially family members) Click here 
I plan on studding the genetic part more and will send all family more info once I get all the right information. 

Behold the Bearded Lady

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A bit of an update…

I’m in the midst of doing testing to see which particular kind of Episodic Ataxia I have. Because of this I am now off my beloved baclofen and it has sent my gastroparesis flaring up.

Just a little reminder Gastroparesis is when the muscles in your bodies digestive system work poorly or not at all. I am very lucky I have good kind of GP I just stay away from certain meats and whole grain foods and random things here and there and I’m fine.

However when I am off the baclofen it does get worse and I have to resort to a liquid and baby food diet. Every now and then my body will let me squeeze in a chicken nugget or processed hamburger but for the most part it’s applesauce and protein shakes for me!

The reason why they took me off the baclofen for the testing is they want to see how my body does at it’s “natural state.” Then they will have a few blood tests and hopefully we’ll have things narrowed down even more.

I’m also very excited because the doctors have agreed to let me continue to do the hormone therapy that swings my body into menopause. They do this because with Episodic Ataxia and many Autonomic diseases menstrual cycles can become very dangerous because symptoms get so much worse.

The down fall is that I’m starting to see signs of becoming a bearded lady, and I sometimes cry because the sun is beautiful that day.

The powers at be are intimidated by my disease still and say I shouldn’t work, but I’m still volunteering consistently at least 6-8hrs a week. I’m a lucky girl. For all I have been through it seems so small in comparison of what it could be if I were going through it alone.

Xo joami

Be Not Ashamed.....A little tale of why I overshare

Hey Friends!

Some of my family members have been getting questions about what’s been going on with me. And/OR how come I’m so open about my illness.

I’ve made the decision to be so open about what I have been going through because I want to take the stigma and shame away from having a chronic illness.

The stigma and shame is what causes a lot of the depression in our community. When things aren’t talked about people wonder if it’s normal for them to feel those feelings or experience what they are experiencing.

I have gotten over the shame and want to find the funny; because what we go through although some days is heartbreaking and irritating is pretty damn funny.

So instead of there being an army of us sitting at home in pain behind our computers I want us to unite and find the good we can bring to the plate.

We are as a whole an inspirational people, and if we keep what we’re going through a secret we won’t be able to help others who are not only experiencing similar problems, but people who are just struggling with the everyday ups and downs.

That’s why I have weird facebook status’, that’s why sometimes I over share. Because I have seen to many women and men going through what I am going through and they are ashamed about what their body has done to them. There is no need to be ashamed. 

Whether its Cancer or MS or Muscular Dystrophy or Dysautonomia etc. You are not your illness and you should not be ashamed of what you are going through.